FIRST things first, you all know I bought an Intellibed several months ago and I am still loving it so much. You can read my post here. They’re doing 30% off (that is THE best deal you will ever get, that was what I was offered!) until February 28. So if you’re thinking about it doing, NOW is the time. The 10% off “SMALLFRY10” code is still active but you cannot combine! So, hurry up on that 30%!!
NEXT, Raleigh is officially weaned. He did it himself and I have had to mourn the loss of breastfeeding little by little basically his whole life (it was such a struggle that post is here.) so I feel okay, but of course wish it could be different! TMI – but my first period post-nursing has been a DOOZY. Just emotionally. Break-outs, mood swings, tired, annoyed, like a regular period on steroids. Halp. When does it go back to normal?!
Wearing: I have had no time to think about clothes, but I picked up a few Spring items from H&M — thinking these Uneven Destroyed Hem Jeans will be a huge Spring trend // White Derby Shoes (I typically HATE white shoes of any kind so this is big for me) // Gray Tee $9!
Decorating: Recap for the last few weeks… we sold our house, moved into a temporary rental and took a few too many trips to Ikea and Target making the space just right for us. I shared them all my Off Duty page if you want to see, and did a little tour on my Insta Stories and probably 50 people said they went a bought the Self Watering Pot. It’s incredible and only $30.
Using: I am a long time liquid eyeliner user, but I was gifted this eyeliner felt-tip and I feel like it’s so easy to use. So for you friends who’ve said my Stila favorite is too tricky, try this one! Lastly, I am SUCH a gym cliche right now with my silicon wedding band and these blue tooth earbuds! Both amazing purchases, but the earbuds are especially life changing for the gym. I haven’t used the Beats ones, but for a third of the price I am thrilled with these Skull Candys.
Reading: Century of Struggle. Okay, listen. I am very moderate politically. I don’t fully side one way or the other and this makes it hard for me to draw a line in the sand. BUT! As a woman in 2017 it makes me want to rip my hair out when I see other women saying “I don’t need to march/protest/care because I never felt A,B,C or D reason why other women march/protest/care.” That is the most wonderfully amazing news. BUT! There is a reason we feel so secure in our life as a woman and that is because of the tireless efforts of women that have come before us. I wish every women took the time to understand Women’s Suffrage. It is so much more than reproductive rights. I tear up just thinking about what those women endured for us. The mere fact that women still feel the need to protest should really be all the rest of us need to know. Even if we don’t feel the same.
Listening: Russ and I are listening to “No-Drama Discipline” on audiobook each day and then discussing it at night with this workbook. Only a few chapters in, but it has totally changed the way I think about parenting. I am working so hard to try and implement it all. 7 years in to parenting my methods are pretty knee-jerk & proving hard to break, but I think we’ll get there! Essentially, they want to teach you not only parent more effectively in the moment, but also build the way their brain works in the long run too.
Hard to explain, but if I had to sum up my favorite element it would be one simple wording change. So instead of saying “They’re just doing this naughty thing to try and get my (my husbands, their siblings etc) attention.” Switch “Attention-Seeking” to “Connection-Seeking.” It feels counter-intuitive to me to give them what they want for their negative behavior. But in the long run, giving them moments of connection (seriously it only takes a few seconds and they’re off doing something else) has eliminated infinitely more bad behavior. I’ll report back once I finish the book!
Anticipating: My baby sister is getting married next weekend! As Maid-of-Honor I am so happy to give them a toast and I am panicking! Like, I write for a living, and used to be alright at it, and I am choking so far. Pray for me. Or send me a really great toast I can plaigarize. 😉
love you all. Happy weekend!