FRYday : Emily

You guys, I’ve written three different Frydays, attempting to be inspirational or profound when really, I just want to talk about poop* for a second, is that cool?

Tales of Potty Training

We potty-trained our little guy Cal this Summer and it has taken me months of simmering enough to want to share something mortifying with you. But first, some back story. This poor kid, since the day I weaned him at sixteen months old, has had a rough go of… the topic* of this post ever since. I avoided potty training for months, and it consumed so much of my thoughts I could’ve learned another language with the brain space I reserved for his digestion. Getting enough fiber into his diet, fresh produce, trying different kinds of milk and milk substitutes. Doing everything the pediatrician recommended plus everything holistic thing I could find. Stirring diuretics into his applesauce, literally everything minus a rain dance. The point of this is to say that the least of my worries was a #2 accident when we were out and about. The kid offers AMPLE notice before that train ever leaves the station.

Then one day we were at a sports store that will forever remain nameless. We had a gift card and were walking the aisles trying to decide what we needed. My boys were wandering (running) around as they always do, when Cal was quiet for approximately one minute. I called out to him and he said a muffled “I’ll be right der!” Hayes, Russ and I followed his voice, Hayes several steps ahead when I hear him say “It’s poop!” (He really said the S word but I am trying to hold onto my last scrap of dignity as a failing mother.) Russ and I make the flushed embarrassed emoji face as Cal confirms Hayes’ statement, that statement had somehow fallen out of his shorts onto the ground. Cal then offered a very matter-of-fact “I pooped in the spoyts stoy.” (Still no Rs.)

The next several minutes are a blur, and I wish I had the security footage on tape for the laugh: Russ covering the evidence with tissue from the shoes we were now apparently buying, standing guard, trying to look nonchalant. Me sprinting across the store, less nonchalantly, to the bathroom telling any confused shoppers “Just testing out these running shoes.” Grabbing paper towels, sprinting back. Cal proudly retelling, “Member when I pooped in the spoyts stoy?” as if it didn’t just happen seven seconds prior, and Hayes laughing hysterically. Me sprinting back to the bathroom again with the parcel, while Russ scrubs every inch of the area with a travel size anti-bacterial spray. A trusted brand that will also remain nameless because they no doubt want nothing to do with this story! All the while I can’t help but be totally stoked that he just pooped with relative ease, and if that doesn’t make me the biggest mom on Earth, I don’t know what does! Once we had the perimeter under control we turned to Cal, still pleased as punch. His shorts miraculously unscathed, unlike our pride.

Moral of this tale is for any of you parents who felt like you were failing this week, I assure you, you’re doing a great job. And even if you did fail a little, the Frames brought the average way down so, you’re welcome. To those brave souls who are potty training this weekend, my heart is with you.

xo Emily

layering pieces

It’s that time again…Thursday Threads! Today is all about layering pieces. The weather is just cooling off where we live, and there is a real bite in the air in the mornings, but by mid-day it feels like Summer again. So here are our favorite light jackets and layers to help get your kids through the whole day, no matter what the temps!

Layering Pieces for Fall

1. Is there a more quintessential jacket than the yellow raincoat? Via Gap. // 2. Maybe the cutest sweater we’ve seen all season for girls. Likely. Via Cotton On. 3. Canvas jackets are such a great option and are pretty classic style wise. You can find a version of this jacket at just about every store on Earth, this navy with the gold snaps caught our eye! Via Jcrew. (25% off!) // 4. Peek has some awesome sweaters this season, this cream cable knit is so cozy and goes with everything. Via Nordstrom. (30% off!) // 5. Leather can sometimes feel too mature or like your tiny gal is in a costume. This Moto Jacket has quilted cotton sleeves so it’s overwhelmingly leather, but still super cool. Via Target. // 6. Ponchos are super hot for us big girls this Fall, so it’s sort of hard not to drool over this tiny version! Picturing this with a skirt, knit tights and booties. Via Nordstrom. // 7. Vests are a great option for added warmth without bulk. This pop of red and feminine detailing on the shoulder are too cute! Via Nordstrom. // 8. A sweet little heart sweater. Enough said? Via Jcrew. // 9. Another Peek sweater, this henley version would be a great layering piece with a collared shirt peeking out. Via Nordstrom. // 10. This sweater is actually for boys but how cool would it be on a girl? We’d wear it, is what we’re saying. Via Jcrew.


Layering Pieces for Fall

1. With all the itchy sweaters coming out of storage, long sleeved tees are a must as a little barrier between their soft skin and that scratchy wool. This tee is great for layering or on it’s own. Via Cotton On. // 2. This sweater comes in a bunch of amazing Fall colors and it’s at a great price on sale this week! Via Jcrew. // 3. Elbow patch sweaters aren’t such the cutest, they’re actually really utilitarian, when sitting at a desk all day, those elbows are the first to get worn through! Via Jcrew. // 4. We love when hoodies and sweatshirts still show some personality! Via Jcrew. // 5. Denim jackets aren’t exactly comfortable, but this one with its cotton sleeves changes all that! Via H&M. // 6. Cotton On has a million graphic hoodies for boys, all fun and colorful and we can attest, the coziest! // 7. This 3-in-1 jacket is great for fickle weather. Removable cardigan, removable hood, so many uses! Via H&M. // 8. Another great canvas option! This one is such a great price! Via Gap. // 9. The Varsity Jacket trend is alive and well this season, this black and grey one from Target is super cool, and cheap! // 10. Nothing is more handsome on a little guy then a well-fitted pea coat. We can’t resist! Via H&M.


boo banner

This time next week it is officially Halloween season! Here is one easy decor piece that you can use on outdoors or inside, the Boo Banner! Here’s how you’ll do it:
Boo BannerStart by cutting out your piece of black felt. The easiest way to create this shape is to mark the center of the felt, choose the angle you like and mark both sides so you know how steep to cut. Then take a wooden dowel and hot glue it to the very top of the back of your black felt. Do a little extra glue on both sides and then glue down twine, yarn or cord of your choice. We chose an orange cord for this for a little pop of color! Also, use a pencil or something small to tuck the cord into the glue, glue gun burns are no joke.
Boo Banner

Once it’s dry, do another strip of glue below the dowel and roll the dowel over it, making a nice clean covered and finished look on the back! Then taking a contrasting color of felt – we went with white – cut out your letters! Small, like really small dabs, of hot glue are hardly noticeable through the white felt! Let it dry and hang.

Boo Banner


Find all our Halloween crafts, parties, and costume ideas right here!

For more Halloween decor check out our Felt Ball Witch Garland and 3D Halloween Balloons!

it’s bedtime!

We’ve teamed up with – a family owned lighting business that dates all the way back to 1914, Happy 100 Year birthday to them! – today to share a peek into the blessed, highly sought after, at times bittersweet, bedtime at our homes. Some days we might think forward to it a little too much, or anticipate maybe a little too early in the day, but when it all comes down to it, bedtime is such a sweet time as a parent. So many wonderful hushed conversations, time to talk and giggle and of course, time to read and sing and enjoy each other one more time before lights out! Before we get to our favorite bedtime books, here’s a little bit about the lamp if you’d like to hear! was so nice to send us some lighting in preparation for today’s post! It was so hard to choose, they have a seriously impressive collection! But, we think the Pixo Desk Lamp is the perfect lamp for a little boys room (or pretty much any room for you modern decor lovers!) Pixo Desk Lamp It has that high shine lacquer (easy to wipe down!) and sleek simple lines. It boasts a USB cord right at the base which is so nice for charging devices without having to move furniture around to get to the plug!Pixo Desk Lamp This Pixo Desk Lamp is made by one of’s featured brands, Pablo Designs and their entire collection is so great! Here’s a few more that we have our eye on by Pablo Designs.

1. The Pixo comes in several colors and we debated heavily on whether to try out the “Azzure” or “Glow”. They’re both so great! 2. We also love this Tube Top lamp which has an acrylic base lamp that comes in a bunch of great colors, we loved the clear and red best! 3. Then the Piccola Accent lamp is super cool with its weighted bottom! You can turn and swivel the metal pole so the lightbulb shines where you need it, while the base holds firm! You can see how they decorated the Tube Top lamp into a extra special room in this video here! It’s a touching story of how a soldier who sent home from Iraq with a head injury nominated his wife and now caretaker for a bedroom makeover.

Pablo Designs

And now back to our bedtime books! Each of us has a special bedtime routine with each of our individual kids, we think it might be fun to talk more about that soon! In the meantime, here are our boys’ most favorite bedtime story books, the ones they request when they say “just onnnne more?”

Favorite Bedtime Books

Dr Seuss’s Sleep Book// Spoon// Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day// Hug Machine// Where’s Walrus?// The Hueys in the New Sweater// Don’t Let the Pigeon Stay Up Late!// This Moose Belongs to Me// The Going-To-Bed Book// The Day the Crayons Quit//Lost and Found//The Napping House//

What books are must-reads before bedtime at your house?

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monster puppets

You parents of school-kids, do you participate in their classrooms? We hear the PTA is no joke! We love being able to observe or join our boys anytime their being creative, so volunteering for their art time at school is right up our alley. This craft is a perfect project to bring for a big classroom. The supplies are super inexpensive and the kids love it! Here’s how you can recreate it at your own schools!

You can purchase these Craft Foam Sheets at any craft store, then grab a bag of tongue depressors (popsicle sticks are a little too thin for this), glue and scissors and you’re ready to go!

monster puppets

You can cut out a plethora of shapes beforehand to help get them started, or let them go wild with their imagination. It’s great practice for precision cutting, and of course all about creativity!



monster puppets


If you’re looking for more kid-centric DIY crafts great for lots of ages, find all our “Workshop” posts right here. Tons of ideas from over the last two years and all made by or with kids! // Quinn’s tee found here.


p.s. the response to our Thursday Threads posts have been awesome, we love creating them & so thrilled you love them! To help you out with that Fall Wardrobe be sure to check out this $500 giveaway to Neiman Marcus!